Save Your Marriage When All Hope Seems Lost
When You're Out of Options and Your Wife Won't Even Consider the Possibility of Counseling
Our Proven Framework Allows You To Save A Marriage In Crisis, Even When Your Wife Refuses To Participate Or Insists It's Over...
I'm Guessing You're Here Looking For A Marriage Therapist, In A Last Ditch Effort To Save Your Marriage...But Here's The Problem, Traditional Marriage Therapy Is Outdated, Ineffective, And Doesn't Work...ESPECIALLY If Your Wife Has Already Checked Out.
Here's why "Marriage Therapy" is a VERY BAD choice…And what the solution is…
Conventional therapy was developed during a time when a WOMAN really couldn't leave a marriage for many reasons (economic, social, legal, etc).
Therapy was a way to help two people who had to stay together, make it LESS PAINFUL.
In 2023, your wife can leave anytime...
The necessity to "Work It Out" has long gone, yet the marriage therapies remain the same as 30 years ago or more!
In a new era, marriage therapy requires a TOTALLY DIFFERENT approach, if a marriage in trouble is to be saved.
Dragging somebody kicking and screaming into therapy when they don't want to, is NOT going to get you the results you want...
It's just going to get you a big bill.
Don't get me wrong...
I offer therapy, if that's what you really want, but before you decide, read this entire page and make an informed decision!
If you are like 97% plus of MEN who contact me...
Therapy is the WRONG CHOICE for YOU!
All you're going to do in therapy is rehash your old fights and indiscretions, talk bad about each other, and make the situation worse...
And EXPECT ME to be the judge and decide who's right!
The MOST LIKELY OUTCOME is that you will reinforce her decision, that to leave, is the right thing to do!
We can offer you a more effective solution to save your marriage, that doesn't involve talking about your feelings!
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"Best Marriage Enrichment Organisation 2023"
So Maybe Some Of The Hurt You're Feeling Includes......
Disrespected
Betrayed
Called A Narcissist
Unappreciated
Ignored
Like Your Efforts Mean Nothing
Helpless
Like You've Lost Control
Unwanted
Fearful
Needy
Toxic
If This Is YOU...Then The First Step To Healing Your Marriage Is To Take EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS...And Then Invite Her Into That Space.
You Can't Give What You don't Have, And If You Can't Find Your Own Happiness, How Can She Trust YOU To Lead Her To Her Happiness?
It's a LEADERSHIP issue...You, as the MAN, NEED To Step Up And Lead.
Understand this brother...She's NOT responsible for your happiness.
You're responsible for your own happiness, and hers! And right now, she's being forced into taking the matter of her happiness into her own hands.
She's decided that her best shot at happiness is without you! Now I can already hear some people saying "yeah but she's this, and she's that " and "yeah but you don't know what she's done"
...If that's you, STOP READING NOW, this isn't for you.
This PATH will ONLY WORK for MEN Willing To Take EXTREME OWNERSHIP of their marriage...
MEN willing to OWN THE MESS and then transform it...
NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR IT.
Husbands are responsible for EVERYTHING that happens in the home in the same way Business owners are responsible for EVERYTHING that happens in a business.
It's Time To Step Up And Be The Man You Need To Be To Take Control Of The Situation And Be The Leadership Your Wife Is Desperate For
This is your life for real my man…
This is not a rehearsal…
And I’m telling you time is short!
It’s far too short for so much unhappiness, so much trauma, and so much pain to be dominating you and your family.
Your unhappiness, her unhappiness, your kids' unhappiness. And Right Now She Believes The Only Way To Stop It Is To Leave.
You've GOT TO SHOW her there's an alternative , NOT Tell Her.
She's NOT going to hear your words.
I’m also here to PROMISE you it can all turn around in a New York second .
I’ve done it in my own marriage…
I’ve also coached thousands of men to do it. If you meet the conditions the same can happen for you too!
But...
If you don’t man-up now and take control of the situation YESTERDAY, you’re going to lose your wife, your kids, your wealth, your retirement, and quite possibly your health.
And I'm just going to be honest, you don't have long to make the decision to get it together.
Let Me Help You Out By Giving You The Master Keys
To turn this around at break-neck speeds, you've got to start asking the right questions...
Don't Ask WHAT Do I Need to Do To Save This Marriage...Ask WHO Do I Need To Become, That She Would Be Crazy To Leave?
To change your situation, YOU have to change.
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We've Helped 100's Of Men Transform Their Marriage…
Here's The Good News For Your Marriage…
Regardless Of What Your Wife Is Telling You Right Now...Here's Why She's Wanting Out...
There were ONLY 2 REASONS your wife said YES to marrying you…
It was because…
1. She LOVED the way you made her feel.
2. She believed her life would be SIGNIFICANTLY better with you than without you.
That’s it, that the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth!
Now, If she’s wanting out…
It’s because...
1. She HATES the way you make her feel.
2. She believes her life would be SIGNIFICANTLY better as a whole without you.
It’s as simple as that.
Every other reason you may think of as the cause of the failure of the marriage is nothing more than a side effect of those 2 issues.
Now you understand the problem...It makes finding the solution a whole lot easier.
The Good News Is That You Have The Ability To Change Both, QUICKLY.
Let me ask you...
If your wife started to love how she felt around you again, and she could begin to see a positive future with you...Do you think she might stay?
Or at least consider it!
Saving your marriage is ALL ABOUT CREATING A FUTURE...Not rehashing the past mistakes!
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Think About It...It Would Be A Lot Easier For Her To Stay Than To Leave!
She Would Rather Stay I Guarantee It
Leaving you is a big deal. Ending the marriage is hugely problematic for her.
-The kids
-The Finances
-Having to start over again
The list goes on…She has many more reasons to stay than to go.
But here’s what you might not have considered.
You’ve given her ONLY 2 choices.
Staying with you and being unhappy
Or…
Leaving you and entering into a lot of uncertainty.
You’ve presented her with 2 pretty crappy options and forced her to choose!
To get her to stay you need to present her with a 3rd option…
Stay with you and be happy!
This is EXACTLY what we will help you do.
Men say all the time that my wife has made up her mind and she is adamant she won’t change!
She’s made up her mind based on the current options available that you have given her.
Give her a better option and she'll choose it :)
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Who's This For?
This is for MEN who understand that in order for their marriage to be SAVED, they MUST change, and that any change in their wife will come from HER following HIS EXAMPLE, NOT his demands.
This is for MEN who are...
Ready To Take Extreme Ownership Of Their Marriage.
Ready To Step Up And Lead Their Family.
Have Humility.
Are Ready To Admit They Are Lost And Need Help.
Ready To Transform Themselves Because It's The RIGHT Thing To Do, Not To Manipulate An Outcome.
Are Coachable.
Are Willing To Put Commitment Over Convenience.
Are Willing To Do Whatever It Takes.
Understand That ONLY They Can Do The Work.
Who's This 100% NOT For?
This is NOT for Boys who are NOT willing to own thier situation and still want to blame including the following…
Whinger, Whiners And Excuse Makers.
Boys Who Just Want Somebody To Agree With Them.
Boys Who Want To Blame Their Wife For Everything.
Boys Looking For A Magic Pill To Fix Their Mess.
Boys Who Just Want To Complain About How Bad Their Wife Is.
Boys Who AlreadyKnow Everything.
Boys Willing To Commit ONLY IF It's Convenient.
Are Willing To Do Whatever It Takes.
Boys Who Think I'm Going To Do The Work For Them.
Our Unique Process
Hi, I’m Cody, I Am Your Marriage Coach
Before you even think about trusting me...Let me share a few things about myself...
Back in 2005 I was a very unhappy person, severely depressed to the point I couldn’t even get out of bed for days at a time.
Suffering from chronic anxiety...And totally lost.
I’d been in a series of painfully failed relationships, and to top it all off...I drank too much, too often!
I Decided Something Had To Change
I started to study “Relationships”, I got obsessed with it. Books, courses, seminars, coaches, literally anything that I could find that would provide the skills I needed to have a successful relationship.
Love Is Something You Attract…Not Command
I discovered that the secret to a successful relationship was to work harder on myself than on my spouse!
I had always blamed my spouse for the failure, I never thought for a second…Maybe I had something to do with it!
All my relationships had followed a similar pattern of failure, and what was the "Lowest Common Denominator" in all this?
The answer was me!
I could also see the same patterns in friends' and colleagues' relationships too!
Now I'm not saying you're to blame…Far from it!
What I am saying is that you have the ability 100% to change yourself, and ZERO% ability to make your spouse change against their will.
Fight the battles that can be won!
Learn The Skills
I learned the skills of "How To Have A Successful Relationship (and have been happily married ever since).
I learned how to communicate effectively.
I learned how to get my needs met while meeting my wife's needs.
I learned how to create a shared vision and purpose for our marriage.
Best of all, this is all learnable very quickly for anybody with a desire to do so.
I Could See Others Were Suffering
I could also see that MOST people around me were suffering too.
I knew there was a solution, I knew a different path and I wanted to share it.
You see…
Marriage is not a skill that is taught in school, and our parents most likely didn't do any better.
And that's why I do what I do…
You don't need to suffer, there is another way other than totally sacrificing yourself, or divorce.
Schedule a call now, and start the process of transforming not just your marriage but your life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. My wife is NOT willing to participate, will this still work?
A. YES, 90% of the men we work with are in this situation. We work with MEN, giving them the skills they need to transform the marriage, even without your wife. When your wife looks at you and says "I Love The Man You Are Becoming"…You will understand ONE person can save a marriage.
Q. How is this different to therapy?
A. We are about creating a compelling future, NOT discussing the problems from the past. Therapy doesn't work. Don't believe me? Do a Google search for "Marriage Therapy Success Rates". You will quickly see I'm telling the truth. After therapy, you will feel good for a while, you might even see some improvement, but 6 months later, you'll be in the same place you are right now, or worse. What we do is permenent.
Q. Does my wife need to attend the FREE Session?
A. No, most men attend the session by themselves. Of course your wife is welcome to attend, if you have the support of your wife, that's even better :)
Q. I was really looking for "Couples Counseling", will this work for me/us?
A.This is a significantly BETTER OPTION than "Couples Counseling". If you are interested in Couples Counseling…I recommend scheduling a FREE SESSION with us and inviting your wife to attend. You might be surprised at what you learn! If after the session you still feel Couples Couseling is the path for you…No hard feelings, it didn't cost you anything :)
Q. I was really wanting someting "In-Person"...Can you help?
A. Online Zoom session are easy, convienient, and work 100% as well as in person. No travel, no parking, etc. If you're skeptical about the effectiveness of Zoom Sessions, I encourage you to test it out with our offer of a FREE SESSION. You might be pleasantly surprised, and if you hate it...It didn't cost you anything!
Q. I don't know much about you. Where can I learn more about what you do?
A. We have a YOUTUBE CHANNEL with over 100 videos where you can get a great feel for what we do and our approach to "Marriage Restoration". I highly suggest checking it out :)
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